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Down to the Wire…Again…

Mar 2nd, 2009 Posted in pregnancy & birth - personal journey | one comment »

Well, it’s March. I don’t know how we got here as we have had the most uneventful, wimpy winter here in Québec. Compared to major blizzard after blizzard last year…trust me, I am not complaining…but it has left us with a feeling of waiting-for-the-other-shoe-to-drop all winter. At this rate winter will be over & spring will be upon us!

Someone mentioned the other day, that I have not blogged at all about this pregnancy. You know, I just haven’t had the urge. This has been a very uneventful pregnancy. I’d like to say that everything is textbook but I’d like to see it as above average. I haven’t had any illness, I have had great energy throughout & the past few weeks I have been like an energizer bunny getting housework done & working again on my jewelry business. I will be reaching my New Year’s goal of 100 pieces in my Etsy Shop probably tomorrow, which is a great accomplishment. I also wanted 20 sales by the time this baby comes & I have exceeded that. Mission accomplished. It’s nice to incorporate something creative into my life again.

But back to pregnancy & birth and all that. If I thought Sophie was an easy pregnancy…I think this one has been pretty much the same except this baby moved a lot more & a lot sooner than Sophie, which is a lot considering how much she moved! I swear he/she also has their father’s rhythm as it feels like they are playing a set of drums in there. The other major difference, is that by this stage with Sophie, she was pretty much ready to bust out. She was a stretcher, & her feet were constantly planted firmly in my ribs the last couple of weeks. Which is probably why she was born at 37 weeks. She still likes to stretch out. From the moment she was born I saw that signature stretch that I felt when she was in the womb. When she is in bed with her dad & I, I am constantly reminded at how much she flopped around in utero. :)

This bambino, however, has an easy-going energy about them. Which, in the long run, is great for us…however I have a sinking feeling they are not going to want to come out of there! I have absolutely no discomfort…in fact I tend to forget that I am pregnant even this late in the game, until I feel movement! They seem very comfortable so I wouldn’t be surprised if I go overdue with this one. That said, there will be no induction or doctor intervention as far as I’m concerned. I remember Sophie’s birth, & how the doctors marvelled at just being there to catch…they did nothing. The only indication that I had that she was coming out soon is that they started putting on their goggles, gloves & “hazmat” suits. So sad that birth in hospitals is treated so sterile. Those dirty, dirty birth canals we have…just a big ball of infections women’s vaginas are. *Roll eyes* Those poor neonates, so terribly fragile their immune systems, right? Yet we give birth in a germy cesspool of an institution with a healthy dose of MERSA to go around…and allow the medical community to do all kinds of “precautionary” procedures that leave our babies open & prone to infection…anyway, I am digressing…the point I was starting to make is that babies come out eventually, by design. If they need a little extra time, take it. They obviously need it! There are many positions to give birth other than writhing in pain on your back with a suctioning device or a scalpel…

I was thinking, that last March we had a 6month old…now I am about to have an infant…are we nuts? LOL! Truth is, as uneventful and quick this pregnancy has been, we are both very excited to be parents again. There is a lot of mystery around this baby…since we do not know the sex…there definitely is a lot of female energy around this baby (conceived on the new moon, due on the new moon) but really, we would be thrilled with whatever we get. I haven’t had an ultrasound, so there aren’t any clues as to what this one will look like at all…I remember Sophie’s signature lips on her ultrasound picture! I regret subjecting her to unnecessary & dangerous sonograms though…oh well, live & learn.

The hiccups! This baby has chronic hiccups just like their sister did…definitely inherited from their father! I feel it right now…hic…hic…hic…hic…yes, it feels weird. If there was any doubt whether the head is down or not…the hiccups coming from my pelvis certainly confirm that! ;)

The other major change this pregnancy, was that I prepared my body for birth with Sophie: prenatal yoga, lots of walking…but didn’t do a lot of the mental/spiritual work. This time I have made this top priority. I have spent a lot of time getting my mind ready for birth. This has certainly been a spiritual pregnancy: in fact I keep seeing the number 7 everywhere lately (spiritual number). I feel very one/whole & close to this child already. Hopefully I can use this positive awareness to bring him/her into the world gently. A good start means a lot to the development, mental & physical health this lifetime for his/her soul…